Ten Questions To Ask Your Wedding DJ

February 16, 2022

Questions To Ask Your Wedding DJ Before Signing The Contract


So you’re finally getting hitched. You’ve said “hell yes” to your soulmate. You’ve squeezed into your perfect dress (or tux) with the mental note to drop five pounds. You’ve managed to snag your first choice, picturesque venue. You’ve both drooled over and ordered your photo-worthy cake. But now it’s time to make the important decision: Who are you going to choose to be your wedding DJ? This isn’t a decision to take lightly, my friend… do you want a room full of wedding guests who are glued to their tufted linen lined seats bored to tears the whole night while Neil Diamond croons through the speaker or worse yet, an uninventive DJ who engages the crowd with nothing but Party Center props and 90’s line dances?


Bride djs wedding

Photo: Anna Ivanova Photo + Film


Here are 10 Must Ask Questions Before Saying “I Do” to your DJ:


1. First and foremost, are they insured?

You want your wedding to go viral on TikTok for all the right reasons. Not because a two hundred pound speaker came crashing down on Great Aunt Millie during “Tiny Dancer” and your uninsured, fly by night DJ couldn’t swing her hospital bills, thus leading her to have to liquidate the family potato farm you were due to inherit just to pay them. Avoid such a senseless tragedy: before you commit to your wedding DJ, make sure their liability insurance is up to snuff.


2: How much experience do they have?

Years in business shows dedication to their craft for sure, but more important is time spent specializing in performing at weddings in particular. Nightclub DJ’s are all about showmanship that might not be the right “flavor” for a wedding, whereas Wedding DJ’s are more formal, have wedding etiquette down pat, know how to run and follow a wedding timeline, know how to work with other wedding vendors and know how to manage all other logistics of putting on a successful wedding to ensure it’s the day you’ve always dreamed of. Before you sign the contract, ask how long they’ve been in the wedding DJ business specifically.


wedding dj with bride and groom

Photo: Katherine Brackman Photography


3. What are their backup plans (if any)?

This is an especially crucial question to ask in today’s climate. But what if the DJ eats some bad Taco Bell en route and gets sick? What if there’s an equipment failure? What if they forget their laptop cord? (it happens!) What is the back up plan if these events were to occur? Any DJ worth their salt will have an extensive plan in place to cover these unforeseen events… but best to get it in writing and in the contract just to be safe.


4. Will you play “Don’t Stop Believing” for me?

Ah, yes… song requests. Ideally at a wedding, a DJ should just play and keep playing what is working for the crowd. Musical tastes vary so greatly, you have Aunt Sandra tipsy off a couple glasses of Chardonnay repeatedly requesting Air Supply and then on the other end of the spectrum you have Cousin Joey fresh off his first semester at New Jersey Community College fist pumping and requesting Tiesto. Neither of which is going to go over well with the overall crowd. It’s best to just let the DJ do his/her job and play a mix that will satisfy the majority. A good DJ will however, customize a song list of song “do’s and don’ts” with you prior to your wedding day.


wedding dj booth

Photo: Katelyn Mallett Photography


5. So, do you come here often?

Before committing to your DJ, you should ask if they’ve ever performed at your wedding venue before. Your DJ might say this doesn’t necessarily matter as long as they have floor plans prior to the event, but it might put your mind at ease knowing they are familiar with the landscape and know the venue staff.


6. Can we come watch you perform prior to our wedding?

Imagine your wedding day arrives and you’re mortified to discover that your Wedding DJ drops F bombs like a sailor. This could have been prevented had you asked for videos of their past performances beforehand. Most DJ’s will either let you come observe them in action at nightclubs or other open venues, or provide links to videos of past wedding performances.


7. What else you got?

Most DJ’s are more than just a one trick pony and since you’re bleeding money everywhere else it’s in your best financial interest to inquire about any other services the DJ may offer including uplighting, dance floor lighting, photo booth, videography, drone media, etc. By bundling services, you can get a custom package deal and save hundreds if not thousands of dollars of your total package price. Make your wedding a one of a kind, custom EVENT to be talked about and envied for years to come..












8. Maybe they weren’t “the one” after all…

Nobody wants to think about the worst case scenario on their wedding day, or even have to ask this question but you’ve gotta do it. What if, worst case, you have to cancel your wedding. Wedding vendors sell their prime dates as inventory in this industry and lock in that commitment via contracts, therefore reducing the available prime date inventory that those in this biz rely on. What is the DJ’s cancellation policy? Is there a full refund? A partial refund? Make sure what ever the policy is, it’s spelled out in the contract before you sign.


9. Does the DJ have any references or reviews?

A good entertainment partner should have a list at the ready of several past clients who are willing to vouch for their professionalism and talent and should gladly make them available to you. There’s nothing quite like the words of past satisfied clients to put your mind at ease that you’re making the right decision. Reviews are easily found on the internet by doing a google search of sites like google, theknot.com, weddingwire.com, and even facebook.com.


10 Does your wedding DJ love what they do?!

This is probably the most important question to ask. You want an energetic DJ, full of enthusiasm for their job giving you everything they’ve got. Not a sullen, bored, miserable DJ who hates their job and is in it just for the paycheck. Ask them if they love their job, if they enjoy what they do every day and what is it that motivates them to perform each and every day. The answer should be that they love to see so many people enjoying themselves and having such a great time as a result of all the hard work and effort that went into putting on the event. That right there is motivation enough and makes it all worthwhile



Stressing about the forecast of your wedding day long before the local meteorologist has the weather models prepared? Check out our partner Ironic for your wedding meteorology confidence report!



With 5/5 stars, we’re proud to offer New England with top wedding pros.

"Spinner Music Productions was one of the best decisions I made for my wedding! I am in the wedding industry myself so finding professional and exceptional vendors was a must - and SMP was nothing short of that! I gave them practically no direction and they somehow knew exactly what I wanted and delivered it perfectly. My dance floor was packed from the moment my reception began until the moment it ended. My guests still tell me that my wedding was the most fun wedding they’ve ever been to and I totally credit that to DJ Buono and his staff. I would recommend them a million times over! Book them ASAP!!!"

- Olivia & Christos 09/04/21

"I’m not even sure where to begin. Your generosity kindness, organization, and willingness to work with our other vendors and wedding planner was amazing! Not only was David so fun to get to know (by the end he had spent hours talking to us to get our vibe just right), but he was also incredibly professional. He went above and beyond to accommodate every request we had. Not only that but he chose us as a couple to receive an extra service due to the generosity and donation of a previous couple that could not use the services paid for! We will be forever grateful for ALL of the extra miles he went for us. The music was enjoyed by everyone and our guests were on the dance floor the entire night. He also struck the perfect balance between getting everyone on the floor and ready to dance it not being overly excited or cheesy! I’m not sure we can say enough about how amazing our experience was with Spinner Music Productions. Please book them if they are available it is worth every cent!"

- Becca & Matt 08/16/2021

Glen Manor House

"As the mother of the groom I reached out to David to help me create the most spectacular evening for my son and his beautiful bride. I assure you that he and Tim created just that for us. He had the dance floor overflowing from introductions to last call. From the 3 year olds to the 89 years young EVERYONE had an amazing time. We never sat down and guests were raving about how much fun they were having. Do yourself a favor and HIRE Spinner Music. I promise you will thank me!!!"

- Dana, Mother of the Groom August 2021

Related Articles

How to support local charities at your wedding

How to support local charities at your wedding

How to support local charities at your wedding Your wedding day is a day of celebrating love, marking the beginning of a new chapter in your lives as a couple. It also presents an opportunity to make a positive impact on your local community. By making conscious...

Three wedding memories that you have to capture on film

Three wedding memories that you have to capture on film

Some memories are worth more than just a seconds’ worth of a snapshot. That’s why, when creating a plan for your wedding, it’s important to think about which of your special moments you might like to turn into a cinematic wedding...

Carving a New Path: SMP Rebrands to Black Diamond Event Production

Carving a New Path: SMP Rebrands to Black Diamond Event Production

BOSTON, MA – 14 FEBRUARY 2024 Spinner Music Productions, now rebranded as Black Diamond Entertainment Production, is revolutionizing event production in New England. Recognized by Bizbash as one of the 500 most influential event professionals and awarded the NACE...